My SO and I are getting married in 5 months on our 4 year anniversary. We have had the "baby talk" countless times, we were both in agreement that neither of us really wanted children. Well, a few close friends of ours are expecting and it has got me second guessing if I want a baby or not. I have told him this and he tells me that he "wants to be with me more than anything, so if I want to have a baby, we will have a baby."
It has been hitting me more and more though. If I decide I want a child/children, I definitely don't want to "force" someone into having a baby that doesn't. I have made countless lists of pros and cons, and I am still unsure if I want to eventually have a baby or not. And with our wedding fast approaching I feel as if this is something that I need to figure out... any tips or anything about what I should do?
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