I have 3 children. My oldest 2(a boy and a girl) have the same father and my youngest is to my fiance'. The father of the older 2 has not been in their life since my son, the oldest of them who is 10 was about a yr. and a half and he's never been in my daughters life. I met my fiance' when my oldest daughter was 7-8 months old and the only man she's ever known as "Daddy" is my fiance (not her biological father). He would love nothing more than to adopt them, but I don't see their bilogical father terminating his rights willingly. Now, mind you, I'd never deny my children the right to see or talk to their biological father as I don't want them to possibly resent me 4 it. My oldest 2 have called my fiance' "Daddy" for 7 of the 8 yrs. we've been together. How can I make this transition a little easier w/o it seeming like I'm trying to get rid of their biological father completely and w/o good reason?
Answer by matthewscandi at 8:34 PM on Oct. 2, 2008
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