My 16 yr old DD has been dating a boy her age & I have trusted her to go to the movies together just the 2 of them & she went over his house once (Mom was home) Found out now that they spent the time in his room down the hall, door open, little sister around, on his bed (!!) watching movies. Then at the movie theater, they sat in the back and didn't watch the movie. He's a nice boy and treats her well, very polite, but I want to limit opportunities for all this physical contact. Over at our house they are very discreet. I know they're teens, but I also know he would love for this to get to the next level, says he just wants to hold her for a long time & feels like he's going to explode when he's w/her. Sexual energy much? She has said she's got boundaries, but he will push them no doubt! How do you feel about letting your DD test the boundaries?? I'm a tad freaked...what would you do? I do not want to alienate her. Ack!!Answer Question
Answer by Nyx7 at 8:32 AM on Jul. 26, 2010
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Answer by twinsplus2more at 8:55 AM on Jul. 26, 2010
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Answer by wallmom1 at 10:24 AM on Jul. 26, 2010
We talked and talked some more.Explained while marriage is best ,at the very least be an adult and high school is NOT an adult.Told her though no matter what happened we love her and would help her be safe in any way.Since she was college bound we talked about no matter how strong the love did she envision them together at the end of college.How would she feel if she still loved himand had sex and he was dating the girl next to her in lab.I didn't keep her from dating.She starts her soph year in college in the fall and hasn't had sex. She is starting her third year with her boyfriend at different colleges only 30 minutes apart.At this point I believe it is out of my hands.With our older son we said the same kind of plus told him every girl is as an important person as his little sis.Every girl is someones daughter and deserves the type of respect and care as he would expect for his sis.It worked. Good luck this is tough
Answer by drfink at 5:09 PM on Jul. 26, 2010
Answer by epykpysmom at 12:16 AM on Aug. 2, 2010
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