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Friends invite us for dinner, didn't real mean it???

So how do you handle this? Friends invite you over for dinner with a actual date and time then when you come they are say "I didn't think you'd really come!" No dinner is being cooked. They already ate over an hour ago!

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:31 PM on Oct. 2, 2008 in Relationships

Answers (14)
  • OMG, that was rude of them. I think I would be really PO'd!

    Answer by dupreemommy at 8:37 PM on Oct. 2, 2008

  • WOW. That's just rude to say the least! I would seriously reconsider whether or not u still want to be friends w/ these people. i can't believe sum1 who calls u their friends would do something SO DAMN RUDE!!!!!!!!!

    Answer by LovingParent08 at 8:39 PM on Oct. 2, 2008

  • If I invite people over, even if I KNOW they will not come I always have food ready exactly when I said it would be on the off chance that they do show up! That was really rude.

    Answer by Sonylena at 8:47 PM on Oct. 2, 2008

  • Holy CRUD that really happened.
    I wouldn't to keen on seeing htem too soon.

    Answer by jjessers at 8:47 PM on Oct. 2, 2008

  • Wow. Speechless. Would never trust them again. Friendship would be over. It will probably be a burden lifted off your shoulders. Sorry you were treated that way.

    Answer by Southerncharmes at 8:47 PM on Oct. 2, 2008

  • That may be one of the rudest things I've ever heard. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. I hope you told them not to bother extending any future invites!

    Answer by jespeach at 8:53 PM on Oct. 2, 2008

  • I would ask they why the heck they invited you over then! Seriously. Ask them was it a joke, and if so, it wasn't very funny. I've NEVER heard of such a thing. Some people are just freakin' idiots!

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:57 PM on Oct. 2, 2008

  • No tact, no class, no friends of yours

    Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 9:31 PM on Oct. 2, 2008

  • If it ever happens again, call and confirm before going over.

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:43 PM on Oct. 2, 2008

  • WOW I would say "OK then we have to go because WE ARE STARVING! BYE!"

    Answer by michaelsmommy1 at 9:54 PM on Oct. 2, 2008

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