His wife left him for another man 4 years ago. He met me the following year. We dated and then married 2 years later. He's told me he would have never left her. When we dated, he told me things like he wasn't really in love with her and was better off they ended it. However, lately, little things he'll say like "we had a good marriage" and in a photo album tonight he was glancing through from when they were young "I was in love with her" he said looking at a romantic picture of her.
We've been married a year now and we get along well. But I'm wondering now if I'm just a second class replacement and she is the real love of his life who bore his children that betrayed him. How am I supposed to get over this feeling and be happily married? I love him but wonder if I love him more than he loves me. Has anyone felt this way when they are the second wife?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:32 AM on Jul. 27, 2010 in Relationships
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