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I want to know how manys arguments to do you have with ur SO?

We disagree so much during the Day, and most the time its for pitty things. We both have attitudes and we dont back down from noone. But is this mormal?

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Asked by phoenixjuelz at 11:54 AM on Jul. 27, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Not many.. we rarely fight & when we do, it's about stupid stuff because it's been over 3 days since we've had sex & we are a little cranky.

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 11:55 AM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • Normal for you yes... We only get into arguments when it is something big and usually when kids are asleep

    Answer by Claudiomom at 11:55 AM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • At the begining of our relationship we argued just about every day. Within about the past year we rarely argue at all. It's like it just faded with time.

    Answer by DesertRose75 at 11:59 AM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • we are parents! lol we have disagreements daily big fights and arguments are extremely rare... we usually find a good compromise... I hope things get better for you though... try to get up everyday in a good mood with nooooo attitude, no matter how he acts toward you show love and kindness toward your hubby, its contagious. His attitude will soon change too...

    Answer by SWEETPEAS3MOM at 12:00 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • Oh gosh i won't even go here, lol...... Seriously though all we did was fight and now sadly it is all over.

    Answer by Peekalou at 12:02 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • Usually weekly arguments here. It is inevitable when you have 2 strong personalities in one household. But all ends well.


    Answer by PotterMom218 at 12:04 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • I would say that its not normal because we don't argue at all. We sit and talk about our problems like adults should and I think its like that because neither of us are argumental at all. We have been together for over 6 years and haven't argued once!! Hope that doesn't mean we are abnormal, lol

    Answer by momandwyfe at 12:06 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • He argues when he wants to be right. I do not argue when I know I am right. We argue because he wants everyone to have the same thoughts and it causes hurt feelings.

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 12:13 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • We don't argue much. ESPECIALLY with petty things. Neither of us enjoy it & we're both pretty calm & collected people. We both understand that any disagreement can come to terms with a good friendly talk & that's what we usually do if we disagree. We have too much respect for each other to hit below the belt, call names or be mean. We love each other & the last thing we want to do is hurt the other. We will bicker sometimes, but it's usually sarcastic & in a joking manner. We kid around a lot, even when we disagree...we kind of joke about it & poke fun at each other in a silly but loving way.

    It all boils down to respect & trying to understand the other. Most people refuse to see anything but their own way & most people just want to be right which makes it even harder to see where the other person is coming from. Ego's are always in the way...

    Answer by samurai_chica at 12:28 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • We argue when we strongly disagree about what the other one does or something they have said. Or when there's a real problem. We don't knit pick one another, it's pointless, we don't ride each other's ass, it's pointless.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 12:28 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

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