He has not always been honest about his salary and when he was making over100K a year he did not ever pay any extra but now he claims that his salary has decreased and he has alot of debt due to credit cards, another minor chikd that he pays childs support to as well as another child by his live in girlfriend that does not work outside the home. he lives in a very nice house, has a brand new truck, a motorcycle, a jet-ski, flat screen tv's as well as other material things that I see as a "want" and not a "need" like going to two cruises in one year. He has asked me to let him pay "what I can get by on" in child support until he can get caught up on his other bills. We have always gotten along very well and can usually work things out but I am tired of him taking advantage of me. He is now accusing me of just wanting to fight and not care that he is "struggling". I'd appreciate any advice on this. Thanks alot.Answer Question
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Answer by mommypip at 4:50 PM on Jul. 27, 2010
If he is struggling that badly, he can sell his truck and other things that aren't necessary...then learn to live with in his means. It does sound like he's taking advantage of you. Those are all HIS problems, not yours. HE needs to figure out a way to deal with it...and not take away from your son.
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