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You or him....

who got the surgery when you decided you were done having kids?

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Asked by KariLyn84 at 6:10 PM on Jul. 27, 2010 in Parenting Debate

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Answers (22)
  • Me. I didn't trust him to do it

    Answer by admckenzie at 6:11 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • We are BOTH getting it done!!! We wanna make sure we are done!!! lol I have 4 he has 7 altogether...

    Answer by SWEETPEAS3MOM at 6:13 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • so far, neither of us! he's too chicken, and i refuse to pay for something that costs waaaay more than his, plus its recovery is more involved..i'm a stubborn girl! i've had my share of surgeries...its either him or nothing!

    Answer by dullscissors at 6:15 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • I will be getting it done. After this baby arrives I'll be having Essure done, it's a non surgical and permanent.

    Answer by DesertRose75 at 6:15 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • DH said he'd get it done.

    Answer by MissRJC at 6:17 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • Me, I had had 3 c-sections and then had to have my gall bladder removed, so I got my tubes tied at the same time. I wanted him to do it but he was a stupid man about it....

    Answer by momof3josephs at 6:17 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • I did.

    Answer by PoisonousBlonde at 6:19 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • Me

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 6:20 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • Both of us got it done. We figured instead of one of us we would make double sure we weren't going to be having any more kids (well unless God had other plans).

    Answer by Juggalette0327 at 6:21 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • We've already agreed that it will be him. It's much less invasive, quicker recovery time, and I've been through enough giving birth. This is the least he can do.

    Answer by pumpkins_mama at 6:22 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

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