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How long after you meet, start dating someone... you have sex with them? What if you have small kids?

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Asked by Anonymous at 6:33 PM on Jul. 27, 2010 in Relationships

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  • My DH and I were dating for 2 months before we made love. My son was 5 1/2 at the time.

    Answer by layh41407 at 6:36 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • when you know you know.

    Answer by shesahophead at 6:36 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • eh...i honestly only waited about 2 weeks with my SO...but i had a few booty calls before that i sept with without ever really

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 6:50 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • I had sex with my husband for the first time after our 6th date. I had shared custody of my daughter with my ex so I only dated him at the time when she was not with me. I introduced her after he and I became serious.

    Answer by kathyartist2007 at 7:31 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • I was having sex with SO 20 minutes after I met him and we're still together. If I had small children it would have been a bit different. I would have still been with him but not in my house or around my kids.

    Answer by admckenzie at 7:42 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • I've never dated as a mom (much less a mom w/small children).

    When I was single. I had sex with someone whenever I felt like it. Sometimes that could be a first date other times it could be months down the road.

    I had sex with my husband on our first date. We met, dated, married..all within 5 months.. Married 25yrs next month.

    I personally believe a woman should have sex whenever she wants, with whomever she wants, as often as she wants. As long as she is being as safe and as responsible as possible. A woman's sexuality is a beautiful thing and should be explored and experienced in whatever manner each woman feels is right/okay for her.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 8:10 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

  • I think you should wait a very long time, but I'm not a slutty kinda girl.

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 8:29 PM on Jul. 27, 2010

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