I had a baby 2 months ago..Yes I said TWO lol. I weighed 183 when I had him. Now I weigh 147 and was thinking I looked pretty good to have had a baby. I didn't get bad stretch-marks and I'm not fat. PLUS it's only been 2 months. I wear a size 10-11 pants now and my stomachj is completely flat. No pooch. I know I look worse no doubt about it, it's a big change from how I use to look but I asked my husband on a scale from 1-10 (10 being horrible) how bad I was to him and he said 7! I really didn't expect it...My mom even got shocked when I told her and she got on to him and said I didn't and I looked a whole lot better than most people do when they have a baby. Now I feel really bad. Do you think guys are setting the "looks bar" a little too high for women to reach now? What can I do about this? Take is into consideration or assume he's being the tpical jerk expecting me to look like barbie?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:24 AM on Oct. 3, 2008 in Relationships
so sorry.. Yes I think he's being a total jerk. Not trying to make excuses for him but maybe the 7 has nothing to do with your weight. Let's be honest men do not pay as much attention to our waistline like women do. Maybe it was your hair or your clothes.. I have to give you credit.. you are doing great for just having a baby.. I'm sure you get your hair done and a nice push up bra your husband is not going to know what to do with himself!
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Answer by mommie2twogirls at 1:20 AM on Oct. 3, 2008
Yea, maybe he was confused with the numbers...because you know they don't listen. But you know you look good...and thats what counts! Keep it up and make him see a 1 or 10 whichever the number should be!
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