My DH and I have been together for 10 years. And for 2 years I was orgasming every time we had sex. Now, I rarely orgasm and I just don't want to have sex because I know going into it that I'm not going to orgasm and my DH doesn't enjoy it if I am not. We've run out of ideas.
We've tried everything - toys (all kinds), porn (neither of us liked it), erotica (so fake that I could only laugh), different positions, sex therapy (after 20 sessions we called it quits), the doctor has run every test (most paid for out of pocket because insurance doesn't cover it) and all my hormones are normal. I'm not on BC.
It has gotten so bad that when my husband says he wants sex, I just strip and lay there (he keeps trying but all I can think is "finish already"). I'm tired of this. I used to enjoy sex and want to enjoy it again. Any ideas that we haven't already tried?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:58 PM on Jul. 27, 2010 in Relationships
I've heard of this happening after being with someone for so long....Just know that you are not alone. I've been married 5 years to the same man and I love him dearly, but I've gotten to where I don't want sex like I use to. I have found out my husband doesn't want sex as much either so I have found comfort in that its just not me. Have you both backed away from having sex and talking about it? As some of the other mamas have said it does sound like a mental thing....Being to focused on sex could be a harmful thing. Try falling in love again. Being romantic with out having sex. Get to know each other again and see how it does....Good luck to you.
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