I have a cousin who is extremely mad at me. We basically just have different parenting philosophies. Something we were discussing got her really upset for some reason. This was a few months ago. She is still mad and spreading rumors about me. I am a Christian and want to respond the right way. Some family members say we should let go and forgive, but I don't think I should be forgiving someone who is still doing this. It is ongoing and pretty bad. I'm not doing anything against her, but I feel like a sitting duck doing nothing. Any ideas? We have tried talking to her and it just makes her go after me more. I don't really understand why.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:00 PM on Jul. 27, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by MyGiftsFromGod at 8:22 PM on Jul. 27, 2010
Answer by amymarie0315 at 8:05 PM on Jul. 27, 2010
Answer by babyangelromero at 8:02 PM on Jul. 27, 2010
I have a few family members that do that too....What I do is just ignore them. Really, that is all you can do. If your family knows you and knows the truth they too will ignore what your cousin is saying. After all you said you have tried speaking to her about this and it just makes things worse. So I would go on and ignore her. Just tell your family the truth about what is really going on and ask them to please not believe what she has to say. If they want to know the truth they should ask you about it. Good luck.
Answer by lil_Army_Wife05 at 8:05 PM on Jul. 27, 2010
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