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What would u do?

If your husband came home and said he was leaving u for a man?

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mamaofficer

Asked by mamaofficer at 11:36 AM on Jul. 28, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Well I'd cry of course.
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 11:36 AM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • Start laughing and say "Okay" but Im keeping the lingerie!
    Blabbermouth

    Answer by Blabbermouth at 11:37 AM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • LMAO< I can't do what another man could do.

    Seriously, It would completely hurt me, but I would rather a man then another woman. Knowing I can't compete with a man, and never will...
    KFree907

    Answer by KFree907 at 11:38 AM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • Not sure but it happened to my mom! She helped him pack but he used suitcases while she threw his stuff out the window! lol
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:40 AM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • I'd ask him if he'd been using protection and then I'd go get checked for STD's anyway. After that I'd get myself a good attorney.
    Syphon

    Answer by Syphon at 11:41 AM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • Blink. Blink. Then laugh......................
    still laughing.....................
    Then just have to ask "Are you serious?"
    "Are you gay? Why did you marry me? What am I supposed to tell the kids?"
    Then get really mad. Might help him move ASAP, involuntary.
    After that, collapse and cry my eyeballs out, question my sexuality for picking a gay man and not know it.
    Then call everyone and tell them what happened. Laugh and cry some more.
    Next morning I'd file for emergency custody of the kids, consult and or hire a lawyer.
    Review financial suiation to determine ongoing living expenses. Maybe move if cheaper.
    Parenting plans, child support, spousal support, divorce care.
    Got to get drunk somewhere in all of that. Really drunk.
    Find a therpist. Really gonna need one this time.
    isabellalecour

    Answer by isabellalecour at 1:12 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • I would look at the calander to see if it was April 1st. Of all the things I have to worry about, this isn't one of them. if he did do this, I think I would faint.
    Austinsmom35

    Answer by Austinsmom35 at 6:44 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

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