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how to handle a young "man"....?? adult content

my boy on 15 is groing up, and now he has been spying on me when im naked the last days.
how do i tell him that it`s wrong?
i have tried one time before, but i just denied all...

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lunadina

Asked by lunadina at 11:41 AM on Jul. 28, 2010 in Teens (13-17)

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  • Tell him to knock it off when you catch him! He will probably be embarrassed enough to stop! Plus you could always make it near impossible for him to see you naked, lock a door, use a robe! Take your clothes into the bathroom and then get dressed in their after your shower, it's not rocket science.
    MamaRoberts

    Answer by MamaRoberts at 11:43 AM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • I agree with the first poster, you can control what he sees! and catch him trying and give him a good piece if your mind!
    older

    Answer by older at 11:45 AM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • Tell his mother. And don't walk around naked
    SuperrMommyy

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 11:45 AM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • well, i have tried to avoid all of this, but one time he were hiding in the bathroom.

    he always find new ways to see me, is this normal???

    i will tell him the next time.
    lunadina

    Comment by lunadina (original poster) at 11:48 AM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • Just tell him that it is wrong, dont tip toe around it..
    2ndtimearound4

    Answer by 2ndtimearound4 at 11:49 AM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • That is not normal. My son flips out and get pissed if I happen to have a t-shirt and undies on, or if I happen to not have a bra under a t-shirt while at home. He for sure wouldn't ever want to see more.
    BradenIsMySon

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 11:53 AM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • Get him counseling. There's obviously something wrong with a 15yo boy who wants to see his mother naked.
    tracylynnr67

    Answer by tracylynnr67 at 12:00 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • last year we had a big disccussion, cause one time in my bedroom he came running and jumped me, and screamed " im gonna fuck you" and lay his hands down on my vagina.... i know its not good, but after that he came and said sorry.

    and then we had no problems for a long time.
    i think he have bad friends, cause its iften he goes with older more rude kids.

    how do i tell him to not hang around with them??
    lunadina

    Comment by lunadina (original poster) at 12:28 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • troll
    soflashelley

    Answer by soflashelley at 5:15 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • You call the cops on him. PERIOD.
    MamaRoberts

    Answer by MamaRoberts at 7:05 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

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