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i had a son almost 10 months ago and i had the Mirena until he was 7 months then it was shifting and coming out so he took it out and told me because this was my second one i could not put another one back in well after that i got my period every month exactly every 28 days well i was supposed to have it Saturday and it still is not here. i am losing my mind i dont want another baby i cant do it again. i think iam just venting but iam scared. Also i am still nursing can this make the periods go a little crazy? also i only had sex once with out a condom and he didnt even finish? it took me almost a yr of trying to get my son so iam hoping there is no way!! please help me feel better i am sooo upset!!! please dont bash iam having it hard enough!!

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Asked by Reneemommy at 4:41 PM on Jul. 28, 2010 in Health

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  • If you had unprotected sex,whether he ejaculated or not,you could be pregnant

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 4:42 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • You could be pregnant but it is very unlikely. I'm sure your cycle is out of whack for whatever reason. Try not to freak out. A test should show up by now if you are so just go take one to ease your mind. And whatever the outcome, you WILL be okey! Good luck mama!

    Answer by jenae_gist at 4:43 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • Maybe the best way to relieve the stress would be to just go get an at home test. I bet you're just a little late and if that's so taking a test will give you some peace or help you know that you're pregnant then you can stress out. :-) Good luck!

    Answer by MamaSarah1104 at 4:44 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • Nursing can definitely make your period irregular. I worry too sometimes even though I love babies and want more I know I can't handle it right now, unless I have to. Stress can mess with your hormones too, change in diet, different things. Wait a few more days, then take a test if it doesn't come.

    Answer by Desi_Momof4 at 4:44 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • Have you gone to the doctor for a pregnancy test? I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers hoping nothing but the best for you!!!!

    Answer by jilligan362 at 4:44 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • Take a test

    Answer by Peekalou at 4:46 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • Sorry you are going through this mama!! My son is also 10 months and I have Mirena too. I have not had any periods at all yet, so every few weeks I worry and wonder. I guess the only thing I can say is what I have told my friends when they worry, and what they have told me when I worry. Go take a pregnancy test girl!! It sucks big time, but it is better to know than just keep worrying.

    Answer by christinab313 at 4:47 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • Thank you ladies i just really needed some reassurance on this one and all of u are so nice!!

    Comment by Reneemommy (original poster) at 4:49 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • I know recently I went through the period changing on me. I was freaking out. My period always came around the 15-17 of the month. Then it the last few months it's been the 23 and 24. So maybe it's just going to change to a different cycle.

    Answer by momofangels5 at 4:51 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

  • Good luck to you. Always use protection when you have sex. There are sperm coming out even if he doesn't finish.

    Answer by Bmat at 4:52 PM on Jul. 28, 2010

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