If your adult child cheated on their spouse and then wanted to move into your home with the person they cheated with would you open your doors to them? While they're still married to their spouse or only after they've completed a divorce? Would them having children with the person they cheated on influence your decision? How long would be the max length of time you'd allow them to stay with you?
At what point during this scenario would they be out of your house, if at all? Son is allowed to move in with Mistress (he's currently married), with her child and the baby they have together, they lost their jobs and just need a place to stay for a "month" or so. Within 2 months, she's pregnant again, he gets a divorce about 10 months after they move in, after 3+ YEARS she's pregnant with a 4th. Over the entire time they work minimally, but even when working are living off you and only spending their earned money on wants.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:50 PM on Jul. 28, 2010 in Adult Children (18+)
Answer by colethky at 7:53 PM on Jul. 28, 2010
They gotten themselves in this situation let them get themselves out. Not in my house.
Answer by musicmom08 at 8:00 PM on Jul. 28, 2010
Answer by MommaTasha1003 at 8:01 PM on Jul. 28, 2010
Answer by Nyx7 at 8:04 PM on Jul. 28, 2010
Answer by older at 8:47 PM on Jul. 28, 2010
Answer by twinsplus2more at 9:16 PM on Jul. 28, 2010
Answer by pisces_chick89 at 5:42 PM on Jul. 29, 2010
Well visiting my grandparents with his mistress was what my dad did.He was always employed self supporting own house though.He left my mom several times once for my best friends mom GOOD TIMES ,came back then again with a 'friend' of my mom then back, then gone for good with a different 'friend'.It severely strained my sister and my relationship with our grandparents.I was in grade school and knew what was going on. It was very hard when they visited them with us or without us but with her kids.Pick a mistress it was all the same.So nope my child could come but no mistress till well after the divorce and we would have a chat.My husband as does my BIL know cheating is unacceptable but do it with someone in our circle and start running and don't look back.
Answer by drfink at 6:06 PM on Jul. 29, 2010
Answer by sherlee at 11:54 PM on Jul. 30, 2010
Answer by akamom400 at 10:30 AM on Aug. 18, 2010
Next question overall
Planning on having a destination wedding in 2011--any suggestions as to what...