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What is a virgin?

If a gay man has never been with a woman and a lesbian has never been with a man are they still considered a virgin?

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35yoamom

Asked by 35yoamom at 1:49 AM on Jul. 29, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Seriously?
    Sara.Robyson

    Answer by Sara.Robyson at 1:50 AM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • No, they are not a virgin. If they have had sex with another person, then they are not a virgin. It doesn't matter if the person was the same or opposite sex.
    sailorwifenmom

    Answer by sailorwifenmom at 2:07 AM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • Wow did you not take sex ed.? You have children?
    hot-mama86

    Answer by hot-mama86 at 4:07 AM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • If you consider a virgin as someone inexperienced, then yes they would be virgins for those experiences.
    But if you consider a virgin as a female who has an intact hymine, then the man would not be a virgin at all and the woman may be.
    isabellalecour

    Answer by isabellalecour at 8:40 AM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • In a woman,one that has not been penetrated vaginally by a penis. in a guy,one that has not penetrated a vagina with his penis
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 10:16 AM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • yeah it doesnt matter they can still be a virgin that are the same s**
    Ricanmami1

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 11:56 AM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • OK a woman is no longer a virgin after popping the cherry (though that doesn't always happen the first time, mine didn't lost virginity at 16 popped cherry at 18.) or penetration (could also be done by dildo) of the vagina. A man loses his virginity after his first load caused by penetrating any thing.
    hot-mama86

    Answer by hot-mama86 at 2:31 PM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • Thanks Hot Mama for the info and No this was NOT discussed in sex ed. But I am sure that I older than you! so maybe they do now.
    35yoamom

    Comment by 35yoamom (original poster) at 5:14 PM on Jul. 29, 2010

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