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i'm bored of the SO

I hate to use the word "bored" but i cant think of any other way to put it ! all he wants to do is sit in the house with the windows shut & play computer games i have made a attempt in gaming but i have only liked to play donkey kong & when i beat that i was just done with games ANY WAY if i ever want to go out to the store, the river or even for a late night stroll around the block he waste as much as he can .. i dont get it we met at work we did forestry!!! we hiked mountains & cut down trees ... it's all changed i hate it i cant stand to be inside all the time!!! all closed up im going insane he never plays with baby (who turns 1 next month woohoo) unless i guilt trip him into it it's like all i am to him is a cook, maid,baby sitter and a blow up doll... btw i dont find him attractive any more HES SO BORING i don't want to leave because of our baby but what can i do? if i had a place to go i would be there

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:42 AM on Jul. 29, 2010 in Relationships

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  • i have tried telling him im not happy and he acts like me saying that affects him but it all goes back to the way it was in a matter of hrs.. any hope?

    Answer by Zandrialeann at 2:44 AM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • aww i am so sorry hun! you maybe should talk to him. but if you like to walk and stuff just go! take your baby for a walk! your baby would love to go play and see new things. and and would be great for you too. then maybe he will see how much you and your baby love it and he will come sometimes with you. but start doing it for you and your baby. good luck and happy 1st beeee day to your lil one!

    Answer by Preggydyke at 2:46 AM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • i have been walking for 4 months 6 miles a day ive lost 34 pounds !! but still he just doesn't budge i would say i regret him sometimes but my baby is SO completely amazing i wouldnt change her for the world and i do love them both uuuggghhh life >.

    Answer by Zandrialeann at 2:53 AM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • I know exactly how u feel.

    Answer by MPW2005 at 5:10 AM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • well tell him how you feel & the next time you go some where call 1 of your friends & take kids to the park & leave him behind see how he feels

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 11:44 AM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • Maybe if you just go do what you want with the baby. If you do, perhaps you going without him will motivate him to get up and get out. Staying in with him isn't good for you if it's not what you want to do. Just get out, at least for your sanity.

    Answer by Austinsmom35 at 4:52 PM on Jul. 29, 2010

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