My boyfriend and I have been together ever since he was 16 and I was 17 and 2 years ago we broke up for a year because of how he was, manipulative, we'd argue a lot about things that were completely unnecessary and stupid. He doesn't like how I am, loud, a bitch sometimes, physically abusive towards him when he really makes me mad, raising my voice when it's not needed. A few months ago we got into a fight and he went to work while I was at home and upset so I called up my guy friend and asked him if we could just go out to a bar and just sit and talk. I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore and to speed things up we're still together but sometimes he's always bringing up things about my guy friend and me doing things together or sleeping with each other even tho he has a girlfriend but my boyfriend says it doesn't matter, he can always cheat and my bf thinks I'm going to cheat someday when I've never cheated on him.Answer Question
Answer by mom2twobabes at 9:42 AM on Jul. 29, 2010
Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 9:42 AM on Jul. 29, 2010
Answer by miritrose at 9:45 AM on Jul. 29, 2010
Answer by elizabr at 9:47 AM on Jul. 29, 2010
I don't know how old you are but you seem too young to tie yourself down right now. I think you have many more years to decide who & when you will marry. I don't think that this is the guy for you and there seems to be some immaturity going on here. I don't mean to be insulting at all and I apologize if it seems that way but I think you should really focus on your career, maybe furthering education like college and be your own person before you commit to a life long endeavor like marriage. You have a great life ahead of you so why settle now? Good luck and don't rush into anything. If it doesn't work while you are dating, it won't work while married. People do not change EVER.
Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 9:49 AM on Jul. 29, 2010
Answer by MizLee at 9:52 AM on Jul. 29, 2010
Answer by Fistandantalus at 10:08 AM on Jul. 29, 2010
Answer by dragonlady44 at 10:12 AM on Jul. 29, 2010
Neither of you are mature enough for marriage or parenthood.
Answer by beeky at 10:45 AM on Jul. 29, 2010