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How do you determine lies?

I am wondering how others tell who is lying. Going through some stuff right now and a person we are going through it with was caught in lies. How do you determine it to be a lie or not?

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justme581

Asked by justme581 at 10:18 PM on Jul. 29, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Eye contact. Body Language. Trying to turn the conversation back on you. Editing the facts EVER SO slightly as to make the story work.
    lovinangels

    Answer by lovinangels at 10:21 PM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • btw, start doodling while they're talking...in your doodle you can remind yourself what they've said.
    lovinangels

    Answer by lovinangels at 10:21 PM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • When recalling a memory the eyes go in a certain direction and when making up a lie your eyes go in the opposite direction. Changes in breathing, blinking faster is usually a sign that somebody is not tell the full truth. Look around for signs.
    kc932

    Answer by kc932 at 10:26 PM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • I agree with the first statement
    mamaofficer

    Answer by mamaofficer at 10:33 PM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • facial expressions..body language..and i just have a keen sense for liars
    jorjiegirl

    Answer by jorjiegirl at 10:35 PM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • Nervous behavior, avoiding eye contact, shifting of the eyes and sometimes just the tone of voice if you really know the person. Go with your gut feeling...
    michelle121003

    Answer by michelle121003 at 10:43 PM on Jul. 29, 2010

  • If it's not truth then it's a lie. simple
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:30 AM on Jul. 30, 2010

  • You can tell by if they have eye contact.Also ,sometimes their body language.Plus...women have great perception.If you feel someone is or has lied to you,call them on it.But do it by telling them first that if they did lie,you won't get mad & ask them why they lied.Good luck.
    bvannkissy

    Answer by bvannkissy at 4:25 PM on Jul. 30, 2010

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