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Ok, so i finally!

Ok, so i finally go on this dating site. This nice looking guy sends me a wink wink. I send one back. He doesn't respond. I notice he veiwed me again. So i sent him a message saying I think he is nice looking. Again, he viewed , but no response. He started this and now is not responding. What did i do wrong? He doens't even know me. Do you think he decided I was ugly?

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Asked by kimmy1963 at 5:18 AM on Jul. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I wouldn't take it personally. Just forget about it and move on.

    Answer by sherribeare at 5:20 AM on Jul. 30, 2010

  • My sister has done the same thing and some times the guys just want flirt but not really commit. I wouldnt think much of it just delete it and move on to the next guy.

    Answer by jonesy21 at 5:57 AM on Jul. 30, 2010

  • i think you need to back away from the computer if you are putting this much in to a dating site

    Answer by sati769leigh at 5:58 AM on Jul. 30, 2010

  • Move on to someone else, this guy is causing you grief already. He probably winks everyone and it means nothing to him.
    He put his bait out and now sitting back, waiting to see how many he can catch. Don't play his game.

    Answer by Rnurse at 6:35 AM on Jul. 30, 2010

  • I agree with Rnurse. There are some guys who wink just to see who winks back when they have no intention of starting anything. Move on.

    Answer by layh41407 at 6:56 AM on Jul. 30, 2010

  • Some sites won't let someone do more than wink or look without paying. Maybe he's just cheap

    Answer by admckenzie at 9:02 AM on Jul. 30, 2010

  • Aaaahhh don't worry about it.

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 10:39 AM on Jul. 30, 2010

  • I would honestly care less. I would look at it as if your too good to say something to me, then your not worth my time.

    Answer by hanna06 at 11:21 AM on Jul. 30, 2010

  • Maybe he only likes blondes, who knows! If you are going to join a dating site, I suggest not taking things so personally, not every guy is going to be into you.

    Answer by newmomma14 at 7:45 PM on Jul. 30, 2010

  • let it go and move on to the next.

    Answer by erin7420 at 8:32 PM on Jul. 30, 2010

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