so i have temporary custody legal and physical. it is only temporary so it is very scary if we get joint legal custody! our baby is 3 months old and we already are doing this. i have gone to my church for 10 years now since i have moved here. i am a firm believer in my faith. when i found i was pg i invited him to my church and tried to evolve him so the baby could go to sunday service with us both and have a firm moral standard. well that lasted 3 weeks in the pregnancy much like he did when he said church was a F##ing joke and then didnt hear from him till the dna results. i told him i dont want my son going to two diff. churches he said he wouldn't let our son go to my church. then he said that he wanted to give up drugs and alcohol for church(fake). his church is so not anything of my religion they are very opposite in everything. put it this way there have no bible, unlike mine.WHat TO DO???Answer Question
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:56 PM on Jul. 30, 2010
Answer by louise2 at 9:07 PM on Jul. 30, 2010
Answer by Maureen-MD at 9:09 PM on Jul. 30, 2010
I agree with butterflyblue19. A 3 month old isn't going to be affected by any church right now. Its more like when they get older like 4 or 5 years of age. Some churches don't have bibles and that find. If you baby father is going to that has a lot of worship and praising and sing that find and if they do something different than ur church thats find too. It is his preference on how he want to spend with ur baby. I have joint custody and at first my ex and I did not talk to each other at first, but eventrly we did b/c its not about us its about our son and how we want to raise and teach him all together. Ur ex might have some type of issue with private school like for the fact it does cost a lot to put a kid through that and public school is awesome depending on what state u r into. But u have nothing to worry about for now cause it will be a while before ur baby reaches for school age.
Answer by andmaef28 at 9:09 PM on Jul. 30, 2010
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