What did you do exactly to fix things? What was wrong in your marriage? How old were you when you got married and started having problems? What was your best resource for help? How are things going now? Any words of wisdom for someone facing divorce who doesn't want it to go that way?
I answered your other post and pretty much covered these questions but I wanted to add that I think it would be beneficial for both of you to sit down and write a list of what is bothering you. My husband and I did this and it really opened my eyes to some things. It wasn't necessarily anything that I was doing, but he was overwhelmed with school, work, and other things that it was preventing him from being a good father and husband. Now that I know this, I know what his limitation are and if he gets near those limitations then I need to step in and help.
Answer by JeremysMom at 10:34 PM on Jul. 30, 2010
Answer by crazymom21 at 10:34 PM on Jul. 30, 2010