Swear off men completely for a good long time. Give yourself time to heal and to asses what you really want in a man. I'm talking about character and not good looks or sex appeal. Once you have decided if you even want to try again, then keep away from physical involvement until after you are married. Nothing clouds the senses and causes a woman to miss key character traits in a man like becoming sexually involved. Also, never ever settle for a man who is looking for anything less than marriage and lifetime commitment. If he's looking for anything else, tell him to keep right on looking. While you are in the healing process, observe other married men. Watch how they treat their wives and children. Make it your goal, should you decide to try again, to find a man whom you admire and respect and that you would want your children to have as a positive role model. The key thing right now is to WAIT and HEAL!!
at 2:09 PM on Jul. 31, 2010