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anyone hate their husband/SO/boyfriend list the reasons

lies to my face
swears at me in front of the children
does not allow me to have feelings-if he does not agree
vents to me-i am not allowed to vent
expects me to do all compromising
sex is all for his needs
i am not allowed sexual needs
has huge anger management issues and says he can not change-it is just who he is
watches porn behide my back whenever he can
has bad breath

i think i hate him


Asked by Anonymous at 2:46 PM on Aug. 1, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (8)
  • Nope. I love my husband with all my heart. I know my husband has his issues after being deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan and I am willing to stand by him while the issues are resolved. Although his issues are not anything like your S/O's issues. That sucks.

    Answer by matthewscandi at 3:07 PM on Aug. 1, 2010

  • WHY would you continue to put up with such crap?! You ARE aware that you have choices....and VERY easy ones if you're not married!!! :o)

    Answer by LoriKeet at 2:49 PM on Aug. 1, 2010

  • Why are you still with him?? He does not sound like a good guy for you!!!
    I don't hate anything about my boyfriend ... I actually think I'm falling in love with him!

    Answer by NOLAmommaKRYS at 2:51 PM on Aug. 1, 2010

  • Is there anything you like about him? He sounds dreadful...
    Perhaps you should think about why you hate yourself so much to put up with all that.

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 2:51 PM on Aug. 1, 2010

  • well first and for most this should not be going on in front of your kids for any reason. Weather you think they notice or not they do! Second, your not supposed to have a list of reasons you hate the one your with. time to move on, or send him packing. Its really that simple. Why would you want to be mistreated?

    Answer by bellamommyof4 at 2:54 PM on Aug. 1, 2010

  • we have a child together
    and i am trying so very hard to find work so i can move out with our daughter
    i have about two dimes in my purse

    if i write these things down in a journal, can i use it in court?
    -swears at the top of his lungs at me while our toddler is right there
    -i go out to do errands, come home, he is napping with our toddler in wet diaper watching rated R movie
    -go out for errands, he is on computer watching porn

    what kind of things will help in court when i leave-he is trys to get custody? will my lack of income hurt me in court? i think i have to have some income to support our child, also our child has medical issues and i have all documents that i have been the only parent invovled=he does work full time though=he did take off one day to meet the three therapists that come to our home-he did not stay in room after a few minutes=talk about disrespectful, the therapists changed their schedules to me

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:58 PM on Aug. 1, 2010

  • No. If I hated him I wouldn't be with him

    Answer by admckenzie at 3:02 PM on Aug. 1, 2010

  • No. If I felt that way about another person, they wouldn't be my S.O.

    Answer by aliceinalgonac at 3:03 PM on Aug. 1, 2010

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