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i don't know what my dh wants. The past few nights we have been fighting because i have been telling him i want sex to "try to have a baby" and it pisses him off because he says it will happen when it happens..i guess he feels presured..anyways, so we have been arguing and havent had sex in almost a week. So it is 8 pm and he just put my son to bed and told me good night he said he is going to "lay down". What the hell does that mean? I'm about to burst..i don't want to go up stairs and get turned down again..i'll probably rip his brains out.


Asked by shay1130 at 7:56 PM on Aug. 1, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Maybe a little more action and less talking on your part would help. (:

    Answer by Cochise at 7:58 PM on Aug. 1, 2010

  • Sounds like he is for sure in on the new baby thing..........but stressed out...............maybe...try and go in and lay down by him...give him some sweet kisses and see where it goes....but don't push it.

    Answer by Cochise at 7:58 PM on Aug. 1, 2010

  • Is he not willing to discuss this with you?

    Answer by rkoloms at 8:05 PM on Aug. 1, 2010

  • If he told you good night, that means that's it, he plans to sleep and that's all. It may be that he isn't anxious to have a baby. Perhaps you should back off, relax, make sex a natural and not an activity toward the goal of another child.

    Answer by Bmat at 8:07 PM on Aug. 1, 2010

  • he is always too tired and he says when its our time for a baby it will happen for us...he doesnt believe in "trying" and he says i get obsessive about it

    Comment by shay1130 (original poster) at 8:08 PM on Aug. 1, 2010

  • Well unless you know of another way to conceive,he better get on board with giving it up! Go jump his bones!

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:32 PM on Aug. 1, 2010