SO, My first love and I broke up suddenly with a fight 7 years ago. We continued to have STRONG feeling for eachother, but never made it work due to complications with our families. He told me he wanted to focus on school and he couldnt give me that I wanted. He basically told me to move on. SO. I did! I got married, had a baby. My ex and I have always stayed friends and we have stayed in touch via email. Recently I spoke to him via email and he would like to have lunch and just catch up and say hello. Everytime I communicate with him I get a horrible panic attack during the night. I have to take medication and I feel horrible. I think my panic attacks are triggered by him. I just get so overwhelmed with emotions because I still love him and I miss him so much. I have never stopped loving him. My questions is. Should I just have lunch with him to see if I can put these feelings to rest?? I want to move on!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:16 PM on Aug. 2, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by amandatavisk at 2:40 PM on Aug. 2, 2010
Maybe you do need to see him. Not to see what he is doing in life and such, but maybe this is the time to tell him good bye. The last time you said good bye was because of a fight and it was not on terms that you wanted. It is much easier to "get over" someone if you have a choice in the break up. I hope you will not go to lunch hoping he will ask for you back, because that is a whole other can of worms. Go to lunch with your DH and child on your mind. Remember all the joy they have given you these past few years and remember that your ex was not willing to give you that. Then, tell him good bye for good. That may even mean no more emails. You will NEVER get over him if you still talk to him. Good luck.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 3:03 AM on Aug. 3, 2010
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