Last night my SO told me he decided it wasn't a good time for us to be getting engaged because things have been rough and he wants to make sure they work out first. I have postpartum and i have severe ups and downs that I can't help (i miscarried) Here's what I sent him:
I'm not feeling that great about things. I feel like your bailing on me. I'm not willing to sit here and play house and fake wife if your not willing to make that final commitment to me. I don't know what to think or do at this point but i'm feeling really rejected and heartbroken. Part of me knows that what your doing is right because you have to be honest, but part of me has seen this coming with the way things have been. I know i'm a mess right now but you were supposed to stick by me through it, not pull back and see how things go. I feel like we are wasting eachother's time because a relationship without commitment is not worth fighting for.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:29 PM on Aug. 2, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by fiatpax at 3:32 PM on Aug. 2, 2010
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Answer by fiatpax at 3:35 PM on Aug. 2, 2010
Answer by DesertRose75 at 3:35 PM on Aug. 2, 2010
Sounds like you need to call it quits. If he can't commit and you are mad about it, nothing is going to change that.
Answer by Cindy18 at 3:36 PM on Aug. 2, 2010
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Answer by TarLion at 4:17 PM on Aug. 2, 2010
Next question overall
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