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my daughter doesnt go to bed until like 10-1030... i dont get off work until 9pm...

so it does work for our family... but i feel bad she goes to bed at this time...

does that make me a bad mom?

 
MomNbabyGirl009

Asked by MomNbabyGirl009 at 4:27 PM on Aug. 2, 2010 in Toddlers (1-2)

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Answers (11)
  • not at all. you two should be allowed to spend some time together instead of you coming home and putting her srait to bed. that would hurt her feelings and feel unwanted
    KENZIKISSES13

    Answer by KENZIKISSES13 at 6:02 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • no, shes excited to see you..why would that make you a bad mom?
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 4:28 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • no way!!! Oh my my friends kids stays up till they fall asleep on the floor.
    and they are like 4 years old and 20 months old!
    You are not a bad mom!
    mommylisar

    Answer by mommylisar at 4:29 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • Nope. It makes sense with your schedule.
    TweenAndTwinMom

    Answer by TweenAndTwinMom at 4:30 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • This will be a problem once she starts school. Find a way to get her back to7-8'o clock by that time
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 4:30 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • No it doesn't. She's probably excited to be able to see mommy before bed time.
    DesertRose75

    Answer by DesertRose75 at 4:31 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • Yeah...she might never have time with her kid if she makes her go to bed so early.


    I think you are doing fine.
    BradenIsMySon

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 4:32 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • of course ill get her to bed early when she starts school but shes 17 months right now.
    MomNbabyGirl009

    Comment by MomNbabyGirl009 (original poster) at 4:32 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • Unless she is suffering from a late bedtime, no your not a bad mom. Enjoy the time you have with her.
    browningmom

    Answer by browningmom at 4:37 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • i see nothing wrong with it as long as she is still getting all her sleep in. You have to do what works for you.
    But_Mommie

    Answer by But_Mommie at 4:38 PM on Aug. 2, 2010