Where to start... Okay, I have been with my husband for a little over 5 years now. We have a 2 year old son.. & Im thinking about leaving him. I feel bad for feeling this way and potentially "breaking up a home".. But I dont know if I can take it anymore. I work part time and pay the internet/phone/cable bill. But he pays all the other bills. I buy groceries and whatever we need around the house. I do all the cleaning and laundry. But its like no matter what I do its never enough, it doesnt matter. Its always about what he does for everyone else, he fails to see what is done for him. He has been drinking almost every night even though Ive asked him not to. Our son has been sick and I was up till almost 6:30am with him. Then my husband wakes me up at 7:30 telling me Im a pig, I need to clean the house. I feel like Id be happier if I left, but I would feel bad splitting up the family. I dont know what to do anymore. Any advice?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:51 PM on Aug. 2, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 4:55 PM on Aug. 2, 2010
Do you feel like you still love your husband? I am not one to promote leaving a spouse without trying to work things out. Have you spoken to him about how you feel and the way he's treating you? I say that if it's your desire to try to save the marriage then look into counseling options. I went through hard times with my hubby and was against counseling for a long time, but in order to save my marriage I compromised and it was probably the best decision I made. I know it's hard, you should not be subjected to name calling, I can see why you're unhappy but in all fairness maybe your husband needs to be given a chance to fix the situation, in the journey you may find that there are some things you can work on yourself as well, I know I did. Good luck.
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