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I think my husband may be having an online affair...

Are there any free resources, (email lookup, etc) that you know of that could help me figure it out?


Asked by Anonymous at 8:54 PM on Aug. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (6)
  • I'm sorry fuznet but I'm going to have to disagree with you. The fact that he might be having an affair is definatly her problem. Perhaps she has had no reason to mistrust him but he's been acting suspicious. We don't know but keystrokes, like the second post suggested, would be a good idea and what I used to catch my ex husband cheating when I suspected him of it.

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 9:26 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • Not to be mean but why don't you just ask him. If you can't trust him than that is your problem right there. Not whether or not he is having an affair.

    Answer by FuzNet at 9:00 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • There is a computer program called KeyStrokes, I know they sell it in stores. But I'm not sure if you can get a online demo for free.

    Answer by Topgunmommy at 9:06 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • i agree with worriedmommy

    Answer by PURPULbutterfly at 9:30 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • Maybe it's not really an affair. I have guys write me online all the time. They are married but we are not having an online affair. Just talk with him

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:29 PM on Aug. 2, 2010

  • I hope its not an affair or anything like that. Once I started chatting with someone.. It was nice. We talked about my DH & kids.. etc.. And anything that came up. Where he worked the coworkers etc.. All perfectly innocent. I always talked of my family & DH. Our pets and life!! It wasn't until over one year he mentioned he had a wife! Talked of his DD's Etc.. I never knew.. He only talked of a X wife. We talked Cars, hobbies and all. When I heard he had a wife. I'm thinking okay.. Then he just disappeared. I missed his emails. I'd share everything with my DH. I like friends. To me friends are friends no matter what sex they are.. I hope its just innocent!! I was fine with him being married. I guess I should have asked... But if my DH would chat with anyone like I did I'd be fine with it. I know we have a great relationship. I think my DH could use someone considering my cancer & him busy taking care of me! Good luck to you.

    Answer by Angellinda at 11:44 AM on Aug. 3, 2010