It depends on the relationship really....my first husband our relationship was defined by the bedroom, we talked and were always very snuggley.
We didn't get along well by day but "fit" together at night.
And when that husband started to work 3rd shift it is when our relationship went straight to hell! seriously it did not survive, we divorced.
now the second husband is here and we are great as couple! we have not shared a bed in 3 yrs for personal reasons...yet we rent hotel rooms or find other ways for "relations", when we can we are loving and nevr argue we talk things out... so this theory that you must share a bed to have a healthy relationship is bogus and depends on the couple and the needs of that relationship.
I HATE my husband being in the bed with me. He snores, farts and annoys me so much that I get no sleep. Luckily, he works 3rd and is only home during the night on Fri and Sat- even then I am in the bed and he is on the couch or vice-versa. I don't get where the 'rule' came from that married people have to share a bed.
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