did set up therapy appt for us
have tryed to compromise
have not lied to him
have tryed to fight fair with no yelling or screaming on my part-while he swears in front of our child at me
am willing to give therapy a try, even though i feel the only good result MAY be that i do not hate him when i leave with my daughter
need to keep some humor in all this
Answer by Scuba at 12:19 PM on Aug. 3, 2010
Answer by tasches at 12:20 PM on Aug. 3, 2010
Answer by CafeMochaMom1 at 12:45 PM on Aug. 3, 2010
You do not need to find humor. You don't need to tell others what he does. If it doesn't involve you what's the big deal? You do not need to make fun of him. This is not "fighting fair".
When your relationship is falling apart finding humor in it does not need to be a priority. It sounds like you are trying to blame everything on him. If he is swearing at you then leave. Leave the room or leave the house. Tell him you aren't going to let him do that to you in front of your child. If he won't let you leave during fights then it's time to kick him out.
Answer by Gailll at 12:30 PM on Aug. 3, 2010
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