Thank you for your responses. It seems that I could not respond anonymously on the comment I guess that has changed. To update you guys, We talked about it. I thought we were doing good and I thought he was happy but he says he can't forget about her and he's lying to himself by being with me. He doesn't talk to her a lot but about once a week. He said he doesn't want to hurt me but i feel its too late for apologizing about hurting me. We had problems in our marriage for a while and when we were dating we had issues too but I just do not want to accept that this is over. Im not sure I can win him back and I don't want anyone else to have him. I hate that B-WORD for ruining everything. I love him so much. This is so hard to take I feel sick. I know you are all right about me leaving but its so hard. What does she have that I don't? I ask him if it was sex. He said they didn't have sex because its wrong? What does that mean?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:19 PM on Aug. 3, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by BobbieJo286 at 1:38 PM on Aug. 3, 2010
I don't personally know your situation 100%, but I dealt w what seems like the exact same thing 2.5 yrs ago w my XH. He cheated on me for 4 mos before he wanted a separation; turns out it was for a co-worker, and now, they're a week away from being married. I was SO angry @ him for doing that to me, but @ the same time, I loved him SO much I couldn't let him go...I couldn't see the forest thru the trees. Bottom line is that he was flat-ass disrespecting me; and in turn I was disrespecting myself by ALLOWING him to play me like a fool. I know its a crazy hard time emotionally but you have to let him have the OW...you just have to. Don't let him disrespect you like that; you will find happiness & freedom. I never beliieved when others told me it, but here I am; its been an adjustment, but I've never been happier. LET HIM GO.
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