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did i get raped???

i wen t& hung out w/ my soon 2 b exhusband yesterday. went over there to help pack up the house since we r splitting up. we kept tryin to do stuff with me and i was sayin no over end over and over and over again. we decided to smoke weed. i haven't smoked in over a yr and been depressed so i really wanted to. while we were smoken he kept tryin to i was sayin no, then i got so stuck that i couldnt move. next thing i know he is on top of me with my clothes off. i just layed there like a log. when i finally came to i just grabbed my clothes and left. didn't even put my bra back on. is it still considered rape since we were both high? he was totally functional & everything but was still high. and technically we r still married till the divorce goes through.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 8:44 PM on Aug. 3, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (25)
  • if you said no and he still forced you to have sex then yes you were raped
    3xangel

    Answer by 3xangel at 8:45 PM on Aug. 3, 2010

  • Yes, even if you are high, it is still rape.
    layh41407

    Answer by layh41407 at 8:46 PM on Aug. 3, 2010

  • Do you feel it was rape? Being high or still married doesn't stop it from being rape if you were forced to have sex with him.
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:46 PM on Aug. 3, 2010

  • I agree with 3xangel!
    older

    Answer by older at 8:47 PM on Aug. 3, 2010

  • yea i totally fill violated, raped, hurt, u name it i fill it!!!
    lil_ferfer

    Answer by lil_ferfer at 8:48 PM on Aug. 3, 2010

  • If you told him NO and he still did it than yes it is rape.
    lil_Army_Wife05

    Answer by lil_Army_Wife05 at 8:48 PM on Aug. 3, 2010

  • Yeah,Being married does not factor in.
    If you said no and he had sex w/you then I think that IS rape.
    momthruivf

    Answer by momthruivf at 8:48 PM on Aug. 3, 2010

  • If you said no it wouldn't matter if you passed out, it's still rape.
    CuteandCurvy

    Answer by CuteandCurvy at 8:48 PM on Aug. 3, 2010

  • Married people can still be raped by the other person. If you didn't want it and you said no, then yes, it is raped. Regardless of you being high. I wouldn't doubt that to poat was laced with something to make you that out of it. I would file charges if I were in that position. Personally, I think I would have left when he started touching me.
    JGRIMMER

    Answer by JGRIMMER at 8:49 PM on Aug. 3, 2010

  • You said no right?
    pinkdragon36

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 8:49 PM on Aug. 3, 2010

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