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Am I the only one?

Before I had my baby i was completely fine with my body..i never even thought about wanting cosmetic surgery anywhere. I look at young girls now who change their body left and right like Heidi Montag..(did she not get enough love as a young girl?) But ok now i have to admit after having a baby things definately DONT LOOK THE SAME lol..so am I bad for wanting breast implants? I am 21 and happy with everything else but i feel like i sag like an old lady! I never thought I'd feel this way so young...

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AlexxasMama

Asked by AlexxasMama at 10:23 PM on Aug. 4, 2010 in Beauty & Style

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  • lol i'm waiting until i'm done nursing to see my boobie situation. i hope they stay dd but if they don't then i'll give implants serious consideration!
    princessbeth79

    Answer by princessbeth79 at 10:24 PM on Aug. 4, 2010

  • I think it's normal. My body is different, I've always had large breast but the are so gross now, I want a reduction when I am done bfing.
    Ashlynnsmommy07

    Answer by Ashlynnsmommy07 at 10:25 PM on Aug. 4, 2010

  • No, you are not alone.

    I am 29(so I have a few more years of gravity working against me) and I've had two babies, both c-sections. I can't even look at myself in the mirror half the time. I hardly look at myself in the shower because I am so grossed out by myself.

    If I could afford it, I would 100% be getting a tummy tuck and a breast life. I don't need huge boobs, I just want them back to where the were.
    Laila-May

    Answer by Laila-May at 10:25 PM on Aug. 4, 2010

  • I feel ya! Although I get mad at myself for not being happy with my pre-preg body (you dont know what you've got til its gone lol) I weigh the same now as I did before I had any kids but I definitely dont look the same!!! I would have never thought about surgery, but now....i wish I could! Although it probably will never happen haha
    KaRaBaSsEtT

    Answer by KaRaBaSsEtT at 10:26 PM on Aug. 4, 2010

  • Wait until you are completely done having children. Then do it if you still want to. Your husband will still love you since a married love goes much deeper than looks. If you start doing boob jobs and tummy tucks, you will need one after each of the children you have plus breast feeding just isn't the same after the artificial touch ups so to speak.

    Wait, mature, and make a responsible decision.
    Lifes-A-Dance

    Answer by Lifes-A-Dance at 10:27 PM on Aug. 4, 2010

  • I feel that way at times.
    Mom2Just1

    Answer by Mom2Just1 at 10:29 PM on Aug. 4, 2010

  • I feel the same way
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 10:34 PM on Aug. 4, 2010

  • Im in the same boat!!! I have 2 kids and Im fine with the rest of my body just my boobs!! I hate that I always have to wear a bra!!! SO told me I could get implants but I want to wait til I have one more baby, I dont wanna ruin them, kwim?
    missbritt22

    Answer by missbritt22 at 12:42 AM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • That's up to you but, do you have thoughts of having more children? If you breastfed your baby, would you do it again? I'm not exactly sure how implants affect that.
    amessageofhope

    Answer by amessageofhope at 1:46 AM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • I plan on getting mine done. The way I see it, we're moms and we just want a little something to feel better about ourselves after having children. I do think a lot of people go overboard, but I see nothing wrong with fixing something that truly bothers you. Besides, it's just a body. It isn't who we are inside. =)
    KelleyP77

    Answer by KelleyP77 at 3:08 AM on Aug. 5, 2010

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