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My hubs wants sex everynight, I'm not up to it soo much 2 children,house work,dinner and no time for me. How do I talk to him about it??


Asked by MommyInk2 at 4:55 PM on Aug. 5, 2010 in Relationships

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  • How often is often... Totally depends on the couple. We all have different needs in regards to that area.

    If you can't or don't want to have sex that often. You need to sit down and calmly and honestly explain to your husband why. Is it due to exhaustion, stress, lack of time, lack of energy, lack of desire, because the sex isn't that great for you.... etc. Whatever the reasons. Be honest about them. Then you guys can try to work together to rectify those issues.

    Are you happy with your sex life? Are you fulfilled and satsified with it?

    Frequency doesn't really matter.

    The most important thing in regards to a couple's sex life is this.. That BOTH partners are as happy, satisfied, and fulfilled with that sex life as they can be. Which takes, lots of honesty, compromise, understanding, compassion, and working together instead of against one another.


    Answer by pixie_trix at 5:03 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • Have you tried hitting him upside the head? Ha just kidding. Seriously, just talk to him -- explain that you're tired because of x, y, z and if it's every single night, the fun and spontaneity is gone and it becomes more like a chore. And maybe look the other way when he has "private time." Some men are just insatiable but that doesn't mean you should have sex with him if you're not feelin' it.

    Answer by MommaofH2 at 4:59 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • Ask him to help with your housework and child care. Tell him if your load is lightened,you'll be more likely to wanna do it later!

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:00 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • Just explain to him how you don't feel like doing it every night. but that when you do, you'll make it a special experience. He should be able to understand where you're coming from.

    Answer by goodchar130 at 5:00 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • I don't think everynight is too much--if that's how much YOU want it. YOu got to talk to him and find a healhty compromise. Let him know how much you love him, but that there is just too much demanded of you. We women give our bodies to our families, and sometimes we just don't have enough for everyone. Good luck!

    Answer by Adelicious at 5:01 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • He worked all day too then came home and was there with you. He wants you. That's a good man. Keep turning him down and he'll find someone who won't turn him down.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:09 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • Swap husbands with the woman who posted on here that her husband never wants sex ;-)

    Answer by popcornlover at 2:49 AM on Aug. 6, 2010