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What are guys looking for?

I know everyone is different and I'm never anyone but myself...but really...what are they looking for? Besides good sex of course.

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:06 PM on Aug. 5, 2010 in Relationships

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  • They're looking for all kinds of things.... depends on the guy. But you're right about the sex part. They're animals.

    Answer by goodchar130 at 5:08 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • if i knew the answer to this question
    i would write a book
    go on the tv daytime shows
    and make a million

    Answer by fiatpax at 5:08 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • Depends on the guy.

    I guess if you are on the hunt for one. The better question to ask yourself would be..

    What is it that you are looking for in a guy...................

    Answer by pixie_trix at 5:09 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  •  Normally just someone who can compliment their personality. Someone they feel a deep connection with. Being attractive helps. Being sweet, kind, honest etc... you know all the good stuff. Everything else is a matter of if you're compatible or not. When you meet that special someone, it really should not be a struggle to be around each other. If you're always fighting with them, that is a bad sign.


    Answer by SylviaNCali at 5:09 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • Just be yourself. There is a guy out there looking for you. There are all kinds of different guys looking for different things, it's hard to make a blanket statement.

    Answer by nicolemstacy at 5:09 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • I think a "man" is looking for the same thing as women... they want to be loved and respected for who they are. They want a life that they can be proud of and someone to share that life with. Men are not that hard to figure out.

    "guys" and "boys" are a whole different animal........ I rather go for the ones who have already matured in to men.

    Answer by sahlady at 5:10 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • good one sahlady. A real man is looking for a friend. Someone he can share his life with,share his interests. Someone who challenges him intellectually.

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:15 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • You should be asking what YOU want in a man and then see what the men are like that fall into that category. Trying to BE what a man wants is backwards and never works.

    Answer by kathyartist2007 at 5:54 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • same things you are: someone they can trust and be themselves with, accepts them for who they are, shares interests, sexual attraction/chemistry, etc.

    Answer by figaro8895 at 6:08 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • When you find one that you like, why don't you just ask him?

    Answer by rkoloms at 12:18 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

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