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What would be the best reward for going potty in the "big girl potty?"

My 3yr old daughter is having a really hard time grasping that it's bad to pee in her panties and good to use the big girl potty. People tell me to just do positive reinforcement but that doesn't seem to be working. Any ideas?

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RayXander0701

Asked by RayXander0701 at 6:40 PM on Aug. 5, 2010 in Preschoolers (3-4)

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  • we used chocolate
    abra

    Answer by abra at 6:42 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • my parents had a bowl of M&Ms on the counter and the bathroom and my little sister got one each time she used the big girl potty
    MamaSarah1104

    Answer by MamaSarah1104 at 6:42 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • Please don't use food. Food rewards have been linked to over eating and obesity. Please don't use food.

    try a favorite TV show, outside activity, or new toy.
    outstandingLove

    Answer by outstandingLove at 6:47 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • M&Ms. You don't want anything big, because once she gets it she'll be going 20x a day in the begining. We did M&Ms for the first few days.
    mompam

    Answer by mompam at 6:53 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • We have tried new sandals, she loves shoes, tie dye panties, games with her daddy and staying up a little later at night, within reason ofcourse. Nothing has gotten it stamped in there yet and we have been trying for some time now. I have started refusing diapers or pull-ups but she still just goes like there is nothing wrong with it :(
    RayXander0701

    Comment by RayXander0701 (original poster) at 6:55 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • Make sure she is truly ready. You mention that she has a hard time grasping the idea. Waiting a little longer might be helpful. GL!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:05 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • When my DD went in the potty she got a sticker for her chart and a few m&m's. A small treat is NOT going to lead to overeating and obesity. That's absurd.
    sweettigeress

    Answer by sweettigeress at 11:31 PM on Aug. 5, 2010

  • i trained a few kids and i think u should take them somewhere. then if they pee u have to walk around like that. it sux but one good embarrassment will fix it. and the potty song every time they do it in the potty.
    LotusBlossom21

    Answer by LotusBlossom21 at 10:06 AM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • A party. Dress up, have cupcakes and tea and dance and sing. :)
    KTMOM

    Answer by KTMOM at 10:42 AM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • We rewarded our dd with special big girl panties. We bought her princess, dora, and strawberry shortcake ones. We also explained to her that princess, dora, and strawberry shortcake do not like to be peed or pooped on. She only has accidents(dribbles) once in a while.
    cdnmom24

    Answer by cdnmom24 at 3:56 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

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