Im married and need a break from my husband but he will not leave, I feel that I need to leave because Im no good as a mother to my children. Im mean and yell to much. Am I bad for leaving? Im trying to find a place for all of us but I cant afford it.Answer Question
Answer by hibicent at 1:32 PM on Oct. 5, 2008
Answer by amydh at 3:36 PM on Oct. 5, 2008
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:44 PM on Oct. 5, 2008
I can sympathize with you... I was very unhappy and my husband would never leave the marital home.. he was never there,, work or at the pub... my children were older.... He physically and mentally abused me,,, i didnt want to involve anyone in our problems... so divorced him and fled the country.... think that was far enough... that was over 3 years ago... it solved the problem temporarily and the only one really affected is me,,, thats fine cos i did it for the sake of the children so they didnt have to go through the daily arguing.. the kids are fine and coped well... in hindsite i think my ex would of preferred i stayed and he left... I said i wanted him to be happy too..in my eyes i did what i did unselfishly..... im the one hurting,,, being away from my family... so my advice is talk it over with him and if u need to have someone with you incase it turns nasty.... running away isnt the answer.......
Answer by ginac44 at 2:01 PM on Oct. 6, 2008