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Do you like (NOT LOVE) one of your children more than another?

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Gene_Godwin

Asked by Gene_Godwin at 2:58 PM on Aug. 6, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • somedays yes LOL

    DarkFaery131

    Answer by DarkFaery131 at 3:01 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • no - I just "like" them for the different reasons that make them different from one another (you have to "like" for different reasons b/c they ARE different). But I do love them the same.

    hotrodmomma

    Answer by hotrodmomma at 3:04 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • Yes there are times that I do. It also changes depending on the kids, the day, the situation.
    balagan_imma

    Answer by balagan_imma at 3:05 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • DarkFaery131...love your honesty! LOL
    Gene_Godwin

    Comment by Gene_Godwin (original poster) at 3:05 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • Uuuummm, yeah, sometimes I definitely feel that way....it makes me feel bad to say it, but I think they can pick up on it, love them both equally, but "like" that's a tough one!
    2boyz2pray4

    Answer by 2boyz2pray4 at 3:35 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • I wouldn't say that I "like" one better than the other, but I do relate to one better than the other. I have one daughter who is very much like my husband in many ways, and my other daughter is so much like me, it's scary. With her, I feel like we just have a little bond type thing going on because we're so much alike. I LOVE and ADORE the daughter who is more like my DH, but sometimes I have a tough time figuring out her thinking or relating to her in certain areas. I try with her to point out the things we DO have in common so that she won't ever feel like I'm somehow closer to her sister than her.
    vicesix

    Answer by vicesix at 3:56 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • remember our children are apart of us. they 're personality clashes with ours, and maybe that's why it seems we love one child more then the other.
    ymadaris2

    Answer by ymadaris2 at 4:02 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • I think I am lucky I Only have one :) only because with only having one i can already answer this question lol!!
    maxsmom11807

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 4:22 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • Not a chance. I love and like my children the same.
    Arkaidy

    Answer by Arkaidy at 4:37 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • I only have one...so yes I love him more! LOl
    Bumped you!
    Mom2Just1

    Answer by Mom2Just1 at 4:45 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

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