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Do you think you were a completed person before marriage?


Asked by pinkdragon36 at 5:54 PM on Aug. 6, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (13)
  • I don't know if we are ever completed, but I was in a very good place in my life, knew exactly what I wanted, and didn't want and was happy with myself and my life.

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 12:23 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • Heck no! We were young and still had a lot to learn.

    Answer by shanlaree at 5:55 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • Yes. I believe I was a completed person before marriage.

    I had knew who and what I was. I had experienced many things in life that I wanted to. I had travelled, worked on my education and career. I had already "found" who and what I was before marriage. If I had not. I would not have gotten married to be honest. I don't think I would have been happy in a marriage, if I were not a complete/happy person when I entered that marriage.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 6:00 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • no. I was lost before.

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:57 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • yes-had a house great job/family/friends he just added to it but felt complete before a man

    Answer by oppsdiditagain at 6:06 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • Before AND After marriage. Marriage depleted me. I'm glad I got out.

    Answer by admckenzie at 6:09 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • i was... i was 21 done with 4 yr college/house all that.. but i never was the real party type lol

    Answer by oppsdiditagain at 6:10 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • As much as I could have been for a 21 year old. I was game for growing old and growing UP with my husband, however he wasnt so much for the growing up part of that, and we are now divorced. Now I am looking forward to figuring out ME.

    Answer by kimbob2284 at 6:11 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • No, I don't think people are complete until they're dead.

    Answer by Tes...Jacksmami at 6:22 PM on Aug. 6, 2010

  • I think I was more of a completed person before I got married. I've lost a lot of myself after I got married and gained nothing in the process.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 7:28 PM on Aug. 6, 2010