please it's already been an emotional disaster....got pregnant very surprized but will take full responsibilty....I have been with him for 3 years off and on....well won't get into details..but basically gave me a check for an abortion which I COULDN'T do...I'm a proud momma of 2 girls and this will be final #3 girl. he hasn''t been to one appt with me or involved with the baby at all..but says he loves me but I can't work out with an alcoholic....but like I said I'm being induced monday and have the hardest decision ever, he hasn't called or anything in 3 weeks or even intends on showing up...
because of him not being involved and not acting as if he wants anything to do with her (sad) should I
1. give her my last name (and if he decides to be apart of her life he can pay to have it changed to his.)
2. give her his
Answer by jennifer588 at 6:50 PM on Aug. 6, 2010
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Answer by lovinangels at 7:42 PM on Aug. 6, 2010
I have to agree with everyone else. You need to give her your last name, and just forget the guy. It doesn't sound like he worth it anyway. Good luck, and enjoy all your little ladies.
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