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Does anyone else have this problem. No sex life since baby?

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bubbaelea22

Asked by bubbaelea22 at 6:37 PM on Jun. 29, 2008 in Relationships

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  • yip, it's pretty usual since time is a big factor. but if you have a standard early time to put baby to sleep for the night, way before you, relax a little, then things will fall into place. wink
    sherry729

    Answer by sherry729 at 7:20 PM on Jun. 29, 2008

  • same here....we are both always so tired....and even on nights when we talk about getting busy by the time we get to bed he is out cold before i'm even upstairs...
    afeather

    Answer by afeather at 7:53 PM on Jun. 29, 2008

  • If you are breastfeeding, that may have an impact, too. Not only is it exhausting, but it affects your sex drive. I had NO sex drive AT ALL until I stopped BFing.
    patsfan013

    Answer by patsfan013 at 8:30 PM on Jun. 29, 2008

  • Your Sex Life - BabyCenter
    Let's talk about sex: After the baby Find out how your sex life will change after childbirth and how to lift a lagging libido. ...
    www.babycenter.com/sex-life-pregnancy-children -
    vbruno

    Answer by vbruno at 8:45 PM on Jun. 29, 2008

  • This is a really common problem...nothing to be embarrassed about. It takes at least 1 year for a womans body to return to "normal " after having a baby. Time will heal. Just be patient with yourself and explain to SO that it is hormones and not him.
    MommasCooCoo

    Answer by MommasCooCoo at 9:27 PM on Jun. 29, 2008

  • oh yeah. its like life revolves around the baby. mine is 8 and we still arent' back to where we were.
    princezzmommie

    Answer by princezzmommie at 12:27 AM on Jun. 30, 2008

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