However, here are my suggestions to minimize it:
I would suggest that you start having "calm down" times and cutting your visits short.
Keep an eye on your daughter. When she is starting to get a little too worked up, take her from grandma and go sit outside or someplace quiet. Even take a quick walk.
When you think she's getting close to "over done", leave. Don't let grandma talk you into staying. Go home. If you waited too long, cut your next visit 10 minutes shorter until you find a visit length that works for you.
Make certain you stick to schedule nap times and snack times as your baby turns into a toddler. If she hasn't dropped to 2 naps a day yet, she will soon. Then she will drop to one a day, which she may continue to take until she's 5 (some kids do). Don't make her skip a nap for something as simple as playing with grandma. Annual trips to the zoo - yes. Weekly trip to grandma - no.
at 3:55 PM on Oct. 5, 2008