How do I let go of a guy I was seeing who I know is not what I want or need? When he gets mad at me he says FU!! He says he doesn't trust me, he has no reason not to trust me. We never laugh together all we do is fight. But I keep going back to him when I know i can get better and deserve better!!! How do I let go and move on? Thanks for your advice.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:34 PM on Oct. 5, 2008 in Relationships
Avoid all contact with this guy. No email, phone calls, driving by each other's houses, calling their friends to find out whats up, no nothing. Remind yourself what you just said here. He's no good for you and you are worthy of someone who loves and respects you. Would you keep a friend around if they treated you that way? Would you let your own family members treat you that way? Would you let your kids treat you that way? I would think the answers would be NO.
I wish you the very best.
Answer by Southerncharmes at 3:42 PM on Oct. 5, 2008
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Answer by jespeach at 9:23 PM on Oct. 5, 2008
Wow my sister in-law is in a relationship similar to yours and I feel for both of you but as I feel for you staying with this guy is a waste of time we only have one life and for some it's not long so make your choice and live with it, do you want to be happy? or wonder each day if he really loves you. If he does and you leave him he just may realize and change his act, but hun the way you make it sound I would move on and have a happy life. Life is what you make of it so make it great, and whatever your decision good luck.
Answer by Anonymous at 9:56 PM on Oct. 5, 2008
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