My sis & her S/O are going to see my niece this week-end.Nikki lives 3 hrs.away.My niece & I have always been close and it's always bothered my sis.Today,my niece called & asked if I wanted to come too.Of courseI do.I haven't seen her since my sons funeral in January.My sister just called & told me that she wants to have some "alone" time with Nikki so her S/O isn't going & now I'm not going either.I don't know what to think.I really wanted to see everyone.So...do I have a right to feel the way I do?
Answer by jamesonjustines at 10:18 PM on Aug. 6, 2010
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Answer by dutchcanadain at 11:05 PM on Aug. 6, 2010
You have a right to your own feelings. You want to go and that is understandable. But if she wants to go alone you should respect her wishes and go on your own. Nothing wrong with someone wanting to build a stronger connection with another family member. Sometimes if two people who are closer get together that other person who is not as close, may feel like the 3rd wheel.
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