ok im 23 and my bf is 24 we have 2 kids together and 1 due in a week he still has sleep overs with his buddy and hardly helps with the kids expects me to spend a lot of time with him while he dont spend as much time with me we have been together 7 long years and he made a change once our 2nd son was born what do i do im tired of being last and his fat F###K of a friend comeing 1st b4 me and the kids he takes care of them but not spending enough time with them i understand he works nighhts but on his days off he leaves to his buddys houseAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:23 PM on Aug. 6, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by queen.bee at 11:26 PM on Aug. 6, 2010
Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 11:26 PM on Aug. 6, 2010
Just tell him that you need him to be there for you more. You really can't force him to change. So if you feel he is not trying hard enough you have a decision on your part to make. Are you willing to leave him if things don't change? Sometimes people act that way because they don't care, because we allow them to, or both. Take a stand and stick to your guns.
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