My 23 year old son was recently killed in a car accident. He was engaged to a girl who well no one liked. If you could picture a stripper druggie with mental problems...well that would be a step up from her. My son came to his senses and tried to break it off with her before but she would claim to be pregnant and then suddenly "lose the baby" .. she would "change" for awhile but her true self would come out again .......
She constantly plays the victim to anyone who will listen about how destroyed she is without my son ( but it doesnt stop her from partying) and even told me that she had more right to plan his funeral then I did ( but of course that I should still pay for it)... and now 3 months after his death she is now pregnant ( she doesnt know by who and is proud of that !) and wants to name the baby after my son ( first middle and last) . I am furious that she is doing this ......
Asked by Anonymous at 11:31 PM on Aug. 6, 2010 in Just for Fun
Answer by Claudiomom at 11:34 PM on Aug. 6, 2010
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Answer by hsmominky at 11:35 PM on Aug. 6, 2010
I am very sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. With that said, I would kick this girl to the curb. You will grieve for your son, and you just don't need anyone who just wants sympathy because she lost her boyfriend. If she is pregnant with your son's child, AFTER the DNA test to prove it really is your Grandchild, then I would try to have a good relationship with your new Grandchild. If this girl is just scamming you for sympathy and guilt you into taking care of her and the baby. Proceed with caution, and do what you feel right to do that is known as that "Gut Instincts" Good luck and G-d Bless you for your loss.
Answer by Joeygoat at 11:37 PM on Aug. 6, 2010
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Answer by GingerMom33 at 11:46 PM on Aug. 6, 2010
You should be upset because what she is doing seems spiteful. She likely knows you did not care for you, so she tries to rub it in by saying she's going to name the baby that is not even your sons after your son? That is low.
Answer by SylviaNCali at 11:46 PM on Aug. 6, 2010
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