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Is it wrong for me to want my own baby?

I see my husband and his daughter and I envy wjat they have I know I can't have a relatioship like that with her that bond that they have is so special and I can't have that
I want that so bad it hurts ugh
is it wrong to want my own baby more than

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Asked by jmcwilly at 12:44 AM on Aug. 7, 2010 in Trying to Conceive

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  • No it is not wrong to want a baby of your own, but you should really try to build a strong relationship with your step-daughter too.

    Answer by brensky at 12:58 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • I would say natural, not wrong, but only so long as you don't make his daughter feel unimportant to you or less important in your household.

    Answer by Rubia653 at 12:58 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • No its natural to want to have a family with your husband. I have a daughter and my boyfriend has two kids already and i would love to have one with him and get married. We live together and have for 2 1/2 yrs. Do u thinks its wrong for me to want that? Sorry i know this was your post but our situation is kind of similar.

    Answer by youngmomma021 at 1:04 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • No sweetie its only natural and human nature!

    Answer by Seterah1010 at 2:58 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • of course its not wrong

    Answer by san78 at 7:12 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • Of course not

    Answer by lovinangels at 8:14 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

  • Not only is it Not wrong, it might be wise to give the stepsister a sibling. That may draw you two together more and also will help her understand that she is special as a big sister and the Dad will be hands on to both.

    Answer by pipsqueak1 at 10:34 AM on Aug. 7, 2010

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